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We’re moving along in our essays to the idea of sex before marriage. We welcome comments are you for, against, or neutral on the subject?
The webpage Sex before marriage? Abstinence Works! encourages folks to post-pone sex until ater marriage based on Christian values. They talk about the problem for both genders, the idea of finding sexual compatibility, and gives evidence in the form of research studies showing that it’s best to wait before having sex without love and marriage.
Here’s a brief excerpt:
Some thoughts for men
It can be difficult at times following sex abstinence. However there is a purpose in not having sex before marriage. The desire to avoid temptation produces discipline, strength, clear thought and most of all the character of love.
Women tend to focus on emotional needs where as men have more physical needs. However both genders obviously have desires that are emotional as well as physical. Finding ways apart from sex to relate to your partner will improve the relationship. Try using your time before marriage to learn how to please your partner emotionally without sexual activity.
A real man will look out for his partner’s best interests. This includes protecting her heart from the harmful consequences of sex before marriage. A real man will not pressure his partner into sexual activity. Many women find it hard to say no, even when they prefer to wait until marriage.
To find out the thoughts on sex, love and marriage for women you’ll have to read the webpage at: http://www.geocities.com/srose_ix/sexbeforemarriage.html then get back to us with your thoughts.