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When was the last time you actually bothered to think up some romantic ideas to surprise your partner?  I’m not just addressing the men, women get kind of lax about the romance side of their marriages as well.  After standing side by side for ten, twenty or many more years brushing your teeth each night it can be quite easy to get into a rut.  Even sex can be kind of rut-like.

Instead of taking your partner out to yet another romantic dinner at yet another romantic restaurant, try some new scheme.  Was there something that the two of you used to do when you first started dating?  A nostalgic trip down memory lane can be one of the greatest romantic ideas.  Go up to overlook pass and snog like kids again or spend an evening at the drive in Movie Theater.

There can be millions of reasons to avoid ‘date night’ with your partner.  However, one missed date night can lead to two, then three and eventually you can become just two people sharing the rent.  Nothing says you have to make time for these romantic ideas every week, especially if you are super busy, but even small romantic moments can mean a lot. Try writing ‘I love you Sugar buns’ in a note and leaving it somewhere for your partner to find.

Romance can be sparked by being alone with each other.  It gives you a chance to get away from the kids, the job, the neighbors and rediscover why you decided to marry each other.  No, not just alone at the local restaurant, really alone.  Try going for a picnic in nature.  If you pick up lots of traditionally romantic foods and a nice bottle of champagne or wine to go along with it you’ll have a delightfully good meal as well.  Don’t forget that highly convenient blanket and breath mints…

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