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The strangest thing happened this week.  My sweetheart snuck home during lunch to come see me.  In the ten minute tryst, I had the most delicious fun I’d had in a while.

Sometimes a relationship can use a little spice and spontaneity.  Check that, most of the time it can benefit from it.  Sure, stability and familiarity is good stuff and grounds you, but every so often you need to inject a little fun.  Fun: that stuff you used to do as a kid.

So, I present a few suggestions for adding some spontaneity to your relationship:

 

-Go out to dinner without plans, figuring out how much you can afford, or what’s cheapest on the menu

-Get in the car and drive.  Find a nice hotel.  Stay all night.  Order room service and nibble between lovemaking sessions.

-Ladies, buy lingerie that’s nothing like what you have in the drawer.  Wear it under your clothes, strip when your honey gets home.

-Guys, stop on the way home from work and buy her flowers.

-Drive home for lunch and only have dessert.

 

If variety is the spice of life, spontaneity is the spice of romance.  Add liberally to your romance diet on a daily basis.

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